My Supports

Throughout my day to day life, I have many factors that support me.  


First, would be my husband.  I have realized more than ever this year, what a support he really is for me.  Not only does he help with daily chores around the house, he supports me by being a good listener and a sounding board.  I take decisions I am struggling with to him for his opinion.  I value what he has to say in my life.  I share everything with him, good and bad. He is my #1 person I turn to.  Without him, I would feel very lost.


My co-workers, especially those in my 2nd grade team are a big support system for me.  I have had to change grade levels due to shifting of positions in my school for four straight years.  It has been rough getting used to a new curriculum and standards each year.  However, my co-workers are all right there to support me.  If i am having trouble getting a certain concept through to a child, they are who I go to and I can always rely on them for help.  Last year I taught third grade, but due to large class size, I had to teach in a separate hallway from the rest of the third grade teachers.  I didn't get to work with them at all and wasn't a part of their "team'.  It made me feel very alone and I feel that I am very appreciative of my 2nd grade team this year because of that.


Another support system I have would have to be the support I get monetarily from my job.  Even though I have been at my current position for ten years, unexpectedly, due to budget restrains, my job was on the list to possibly be cut last year.  It really opened my eyes to what a blessing my job is-not only because of what I do each day, but also because it provides for my family.  We rely heavily on my income and it made me all the more appreciative of it.


My Challenge:
I have chosen to walk in the footsteps of a co-worker.  She is a first grade teacher with MS.


First of all, I would need the support of my co-workers beyond that of just dealing with curriculum or challenges with students.  I would need their support during instances where I might not be able to meet the physical demands of the day.  I wouldn't need their pity, but rather a supportive hand and a watchful eye on what I may need.


I would still be in need of monetary supports.  This may include actual wages or disability wages.  Either way, my illness would generate a lot of medical needs and bills.  


I would also need the support of my students and their parents.  I would need their acceptance and understanding that I may get around or do things differently than other teachers, but that I am still capable of being their teacher and doing a good job at it.


Most of all, I think i would need emotional support from friends, family and co-workers.  Multiple Sclerosis takes it's toll on the mind and body and can make a person feel like their capabilities have been taken away.  I would need their encouragement and support to keep living life to it's fullest and realize my maximum potential.